In the article Facebook dumbing friendships down? the author talks about people having online friends that are not really their friends, and the author sees this as a step backward, and compares it to the friendships of his three-year old daughter who is friends with everyone in her pre-school. I would argue that it is the other way around actually, that this “being friends with everyone” is part of adulthood. For example when you start a job you need to be able to have a relationship with all the people working there. This does not mean that they are all your closest friends, but you must be able to socialize. Pages like Facebook simply move this socializing to the web. It is a good way to build a network and to connect with people that you normally would not talk to.
The problem with friends on Facebook appears when there is a power difference in the relationship. For example it is probably not appropriate for physicians, psychologists or executives to be “friends” with their patients or subordinates. There is a risk that the patient or employee values these friendships a lot more than the boss or the physician, and therefore will feel judged or confused by the messages and feedback (or lack of feedback) that they get from this person that they admire. And really, why would you want your physician or psychologist to see your pictures from last night’s party?
The article Wisdom of crowds displays another problem regarding power on the internet and that is when a large group of people use their collective power to cheat a system. Collective intelligence can build a system, like Wikipedia, but it can also break it, like it did with IMDB. Fans of “The dark knight” voted down “The Godfather”, which changed the list of rankings of the top movies on IMDB and moved “The Godfather” from first to third place. The top 250 movies may seem like an irrelevant and unimportant page, but it is scary to think what will happen if this mob mentality gains power in other areas as well. In real life people will have to take responsibility for their actions, but on the internet there is another type of anonymity. We should not underestimate the power of the written word on the internet.
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//Sara